Being OnJaLee

A documentary web series following OnJaLee LaShay through four chapters

of a life that was never supposed to make sense but somehow does.

ADOPTION STORY

OnJaLee was raised by an adoptive mother who told her she was lucky anyone adopted her because nobody could ever want her. Those words became the wound she spent a lifetime trying to heal. She searched for her biological family for years. What she found broke her open. Her biological mother, the woman she looks identical to, had died by suicide, a casualty of postpartum depression. Then she found her biological brother, 14 years her senior, on his birthday, a moment that changed them both forever. A memory neither of them will ever forget.

AVIATION LIFE

OnJaLee did not just work in aviation. She lived it across three airlines over 10 years, rising from flight attendant to supervisor at JetBlue in New York City. Aviation gave her the world. It also gave her what she thought was love. She met her future husband at JFK where he was a restaurant general manager. The airport gave them Terminal T5 as a wedding venue. Then the lies surfaced. He said he had no children. He had three. She cancelled 30 days before the I do's. He charmed his way back in. She said yes but always felt it would end exactly how it started.

THE NARCISSIST

Back in Chicago, they built a restaurant together that was starting to thrive until she discovered her husband was in a sexual relationship with his own relative, his aunt who looked just like OnJaLee. While the Diddy trial dominated headlines and the Menendez brothers played on Netflix screens, OnJaLee was living her own version of those betrayals in silence, inside her own home, with no one she could tell. She stayed quiet for a full year. The narcissistic abuse. The secrets and so many lies. The collapse of everything she had built, with friends divided and taking sides.

REBUILDING FROM SCRATCH

IN A FOREIGN LAND

She could not breathe. She fled to Bangkok, a place that had been calling her. Five days after arriving, still shaking from the trauma, she experienced one of the most powerful earthquakes felt in Bangkok in nearly a century, a 7.7 magnitude quake centered in Myanmar. She ran barefoot from her high-rise, alone, in a country where she did not speak the language, still carrying everything she had not yet put down emotionally. Thailand holds up a mirror and forces you to face yourself or keep running. OnJaLee chose to face it and rebuild herself from the ground up.

Being OnJaLee is streaming now on YouTube.

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